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                <title>Using Your Intuition</title>
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                <pubDate>Fri, 10 Jul 2009 15:38:00 +0000</pubDate>
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                                <description><![CDATA[When an insight suddenly occurs to you, you have tapped the trunk line of intuition. You can call this the buried sixth sense. Although uncalled for, intuition sends you clues about the world around you and often gives directions on what you need to do. &nbsp; You heard about women’s...]]></description>
                <content:encoded><![CDATA[<meta http-equiv="Content-Type" content="text/html; charset=utf-8"><meta name="ProgId" content="Word.Document"><meta name="Generator" content="Microsoft Word 11"><meta name="Originator" content="Microsoft Word 11"><link rel="File-List" href="file:///C:%5CDOCUME%7E1%5CRoderick%5CLOCALS%7E1%5CTemp%5Cmsohtml1%5C01%5Cclip_filelist.xml"><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml>  <w:WordDocument>   <w:View>Normal</w:View>   <w:Zoom>0</w:Zoom>   <w:PunctuationKerning/>   <w:ValidateAgainstSchemas/>   <w:SaveIfXMLInvalid>false</w:SaveIfXMLInvalid>   <w:IgnoreMixedContent>false</w:IgnoreMixedContent>   <w:AlwaysShowPlaceholderText>false</w:AlwaysShowPlaceholderText>   <w:Compatibility>    <w:BreakWrappedTables/>    <w:SnapToGridInCell/>    <w:WrapTextWithPunct/>    <w:UseAsianBreakRules/>    <w:DontGrowAutofit/>   </w:Compatibility>   <w:BrowserLevel>MicrosoftInternetExplorer4</w:BrowserLevel>  </w:WordDocument> </xml><![endif]--><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml>  <w:LatentStyles DefLockedState="false" LatentStyleCount="156">  </w:LatentStyles> </xml><![endif]--><style> <!--  /* Style Definitions */  p.MsoNormal, li.MsoNormal, div.MsoNormal 	{mso-style-parent:""; 	margin:0in; 	margin-bottom:.0001pt; 	mso-pagination:widow-orphan; 	font-size:12.0pt; 	font-family:"Times New Roman"; 	mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman";} @page Section1 	{size:8.5in 11.0in; 	margin:1.0in 1.25in 1.0in 1.25in; 	mso-header-margin:.5in; 	mso-footer-margin:.5in; 	mso-paper-source:0;} div.Section1 	{page:Section1;} --> </style><!--[if gte mso 10]> <style>  /* Style Definitions */  table.MsoNormalTable 	{mso-style-name:"Table Normal"; 	mso-tstyle-rowband-size:0; 	mso-tstyle-colband-size:0; 	mso-style-noshow:yes; 	mso-style-parent:""; 	mso-padding-alt:0in 5.4pt 0in 5.4pt; 	mso-para-margin:0in; 	mso-para-margin-bottom:.0001pt; 	mso-pagination:widow-orphan; 	font-size:10.0pt; 	font-family:"Times New Roman"; 	mso-ansi-language:#0400; 	mso-fareast-language:#0400; 	mso-bidi-language:#0400;} </style> <![endif]-->  <p class="MsoNormal"><b style="">When an insight suddenly occurs to you, you have tapped the trunk line of intuition. You can call this the buried sixth sense. Although uncalled for, intuition sends you clues about the world around you and often gives directions on what you need to do.<o:p></o:p></b></p>  <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></p>  <p class="MsoNormal">You heard about women’s intuition. Some husband would wonder, “I don’t know how she found out without anyone telling her”. Women sure have a way of feeling their way, or smelling trouble even if its miles away if someone they love is involved. A woman’s intuition often gets erring husbands busted by their wives.</p>  <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></p>  <p class="MsoNormal">Intuition is also hot in therapists, doctors and even businessmen. People try to tap into their intuition for guidance in decisions about love, health and work. Effective doctors rely no just on their physical instruments for diagnosis, which could point to 101 diseases, but also in learning to hear and trust their intuition. In the past, the cultivation of intuition was one of the major works of Egyptians, Chaldeans, Indians and Persians. The influence of their cultures extended beyond the great oceans. Today, intuition is developed enough for man to bring about greater cultures and civilizations. By opening our faculty of intuition, you can by-pass the traps set by the mind as dictated by modern civilization.</p>  <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></p>  <p class="MsoNormal">Your intuition can bring you information you won’t receive from any other source. If you are quiet and calm, you can experience how your intuition sends you messages and insights. This could even be happening right now. It’s just that you often dismiss these ideas because you were taught to think in a logical and rational manner.</p>  <p class="MsoNormal">If you let your intuition work, however, you’ll be surprised at how intelligent you seem to have become – certain concepts have become easily comprehensible, or you are able to “see” certain aspects not normally perceived by people. In fact, your intuition can also be like an inner doctor whom you turn to all kinds of advice. Your body gives you early warning signs on what is wrong with it; your intuition enables you to find out what is exactly and what to do about it.</p>  <p class="MsoNormal">Many people wonder if they are indeed is touch with intuition. We all have different ways of explaining it. It’s a feeling, a subtle turning or pulling in the navel area, which some people call the “gut instinct”. Sometimes, this sixth sense appears as a quickening</p>  <p class="MsoNormal">of the heartbeat, hair standing on end, a queasy feeling, or a burning or tingling sensation. When something is right, you feel a sense of lightness, and when something is wrong, you feel heaviness.</p>  <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></p>  <p class="MsoNormal">The logical, conscious mind is compared to a big, bossy brother who drowns out and bullies the younger sister (or the intuitive voice) by dismissing its suggestions with quick, harsh, thunderbolt judgments. Try to trick your conscious mind once in a while and be uninvolved so you can find it easier to be intuitive.</p>  <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></p>  <p class="MsoNormal">As wise and knowledgeable as your intuition may be, don’t expect it to be totally relieving you of your decision-making responsibilities. Your intuition just provides you options to take, not absolute answers or solutions. You’re still responsible for weighing your intuitive impressions against the data found in reality and then making the ultimate decision. It’s never a question of preferring intuition over the intellect because you need both.</p>  <p class="MsoNormal">Without getting too esoteric, intuition can be an asset, health-wise. With the wisdom your body is telling you, you can collaborate with health practitioners. He, who feels it, knows it more. The doctors are only guide by what you tell them.</p>  <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></p>  <p class="MsoNormal">On its very deep aspect, intuition reveals three great qualities: illumination, understanding and love – a love that transcends all barriers, makes criticisms and produces separation. Intuition, according to a Tibetan sage, is synthetic understanding, a comprehensive grip of universality and loss of the sense of separateness. Intuition embodies universal love and identification with all living beings.</p>  <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></p>  <p class="MsoNormal">Next time, we will explore how to tap intuition and how to feel a lie or truth in your body.</p>  <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="">&nbsp;</span></p>  <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="">&nbsp; </span><span style="">&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span style="">&nbsp;</span></p>]]></content:encoded>
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                <title>The Luxury of Spas</title>
                <link>http://ronhealththoughts.i.ph/blogs/ronhealththoughts/?p=9</link>
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                <pubDate>Tue, 23 Jun 2009 11:37:00 +0000</pubDate>
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                                <description><![CDATA[Locate a patch of trees and expect to find water underneath as well. Just like plants, man can survive for many weeks without solid food as long as he has water to drink. Traditionally water is considered the source of all life. What magical powers water possess? Immerse yourself in...]]></description>
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Just like plants, man can survive for many weeks without solid food as long as he has water to drink. Traditionally water is considered the source of all life. What magical powers water possess?</b></p>  <p class="MsoNormal">Immerse yourself in water and relieve the ills of the flesh. Known as <i style="">hydrotherapy, </i>this has been one of the most effective forms of medicine since the ancient times. Submersion in water allows tired tissues to relax and recover stamina. A warm bath stimulates circulation, luring blood to the body’s extremities to soothe, calm, and sedate.</p>  <p class="MsoNormal">On the other hand, cold water inhibits the circulation to the skin, redirecting blood to the vital organs in order to restore, energize, and build resistance to diseases. Bathing in a warm tub relaxes tense muscles, turning the mind inward and instilling that sense of peace as stress drifts away.</p>  <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="">&nbsp;</span>A spas bath is an extraordinary treatment when mineral-rich sea water or fresh spring water is used. For this reason, many of the sought-after spas in the world are located on coastal areas or adjacent to natural mineral springs. Coastal spas pump in sea water for <i style="">thalassic </i>therapy – Greek for “sea treatment”. The water is heated since it is believed that doing so increases the adoption of minerals.</p>  <p class="MsoNormal">Mineral water spas divert water gushing from its underground source into pipes connected to the treatment rooms. In a certain area, the quality of spring water may vary, some waters sparkling with natural carbonation, which increases circulation and flushes impurities out of the skin. According to those who bathe in such therapeutic waters, the bathe stimulates as well as relaxes the mind and draw out toxins from the body. These processes are intended to cool inflammation and makes muscles more supple. The water leaves the skin soft, velvety, and well-hydrated.</p>  <p class="MsoNormal">Right in your homes, create an ambiance that promotes rejuvenation. Turn off overhead lights, and use several candles instead. Play some lush, relaxing music. Diffuse the air and mix the spa water with some aromatic oils of aromatherapy. Decorate the rooms with flowers.</p>  <p class="MsoNormal">Water temperature is critical for an effective hydrotherapy treatment. For a relaxing bath, the temperature should be at 35degreesC for 10 to 15 minutes; sore muscles at 38degressC of five to 10 minutes. For an invigorating bath; five minutes at 18-24degreesC. You can use a kitchen thermometer to determine the water temperature.</p>  <p class="MsoNormal">If you prefer extremely hot baths, stay in the water no longer than five minutes. Hot water dries and tightens the skin and can leave you feeling “wiped out”. The Chinese believe that staying in hot water too long is unhealthy and drains your <i style="">chi.<o:p></o:p></i></p>  <p class="MsoNormal">After bathing, splash yourself with cool water to tone and invigorate your skin. Cold water also closes the pores of the skin so you don’t get sick.</p>  <p class="MsoNormal">Massage is also an excellent compliment while you’re still in the tub. Natural sea sponges or <i style="">loofah </i>rolled down your back and shoulders stimulate and exfoliate the skin. A pumice stone can be used to remove foot calluses.</p>  <p class="MsoNormal">Plain water cleans very well. Don’t sit in a tub of soapy water. Doing so dries and irritates skin</p>]]></content:encoded>
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                <title>Checklist to  Long Life</title>
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                <pubDate>Wed, 17 Jun 2009 14:38:00 +0000</pubDate>
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                                <description><![CDATA[The great sages of ancient India gave man a priceless gift – one that would promote the maintenance and protection of his health. The gift is the ayurvedas, the oldest scientific medical system in the world with along record of clinical experience. With its holistic approach of combining the body,...]]></description>
                <content:encoded><![CDATA[<meta http-equiv="Content-Type" content="text/html; charset=utf-8"><meta name="ProgId" content="Word.Document"><meta name="Generator" content="Microsoft Word 11"><meta name="Originator" content="Microsoft Word 11"><link rel="File-List" href="file:///C:%5CDOCUME%7E1%5CRoderick%5CLOCALS%7E1%5CTemp%5Cmsohtml1%5C01%5Cclip_filelist.xml"><o:smarttagtype namespaceuri="urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:smarttags" name="country-region" downloadurl="http://www.5iantlavalamp.com/"></o:smarttagtype><o:smarttagtype namespaceuri="urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:smarttags" name="place" downloadurl="http://www.5iantlavalamp.com/"></o:smarttagtype><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml>  <w:WordDocument>   <w:View>Normal</w:View>   <w:Zoom>0</w:Zoom>   <w:PunctuationKerning/>   <w:ValidateAgainstSchemas/>   <w:SaveIfXMLInvalid>false</w:SaveIfXMLInvalid>   <w:IgnoreMixedContent>false</w:IgnoreMixedContent>   <w:AlwaysShowPlaceholderText>false</w:AlwaysShowPlaceholderText>   <w:Compatibility>    <w:BreakWrappedTables/>    <w:SnapToGridInCell/>    <w:WrapTextWithPunct/>    <w:UseAsianBreakRules/>    <w:DontGrowAutofit/>   </w:Compatibility>   <w:BrowserLevel>MicrosoftInternetExplorer4</w:BrowserLevel>  </w:WordDocument> </xml><![endif]--><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml>  <w:LatentStyles DefLockedState="false" LatentStyleCount="156">  </w:LatentStyles> </xml><![endif]--><!--[if !mso]><object  classid="clsid:38481807-CA0E-42D2-BF39-B33AF135CC4D" id=ieooui></object> <style> st1\:*{behavior:url(#ieooui) } </style> <![endif]--><style> <!--  /* Style Definitions */  p.MsoNormal, li.MsoNormal, div.MsoNormal 	{mso-style-parent:""; 	margin:0in; 	margin-bottom:.0001pt; 	mso-pagination:widow-orphan; 	font-size:12.0pt; 	font-family:"Times New Roman"; 	mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman";} @page Section1 	{size:8.5in 11.0in; 	margin:1.0in 1.25in 1.0in 1.25in; 	mso-header-margin:.5in; 	mso-footer-margin:.5in; 	mso-paper-source:0;} div.Section1 	{page:Section1;} --> </style><!--[if gte mso 10]> <style>  /* Style Definitions */  table.MsoNormalTable 	{mso-style-name:"Table Normal"; 	mso-tstyle-rowband-size:0; 	mso-tstyle-colband-size:0; 	mso-style-noshow:yes; 	mso-style-parent:""; 	mso-padding-alt:0in 5.4pt 0in 5.4pt; 	mso-para-margin:0in; 	mso-para-margin-bottom:.0001pt; 	mso-pagination:widow-orphan; 	font-size:10.0pt; 	font-family:"Times New Roman"; 	mso-ansi-language:#0400; 	mso-fareast-language:#0400; 	mso-bidi-language:#0400;} </style> <![endif]-->  <p class="MsoNormal"><a href="http://ronhealththoughts.i.ph/photo/15/109" target="_blank"><img src="http://ronhealththoughts.i.ph/photo/d/110-1/jogging.jpg?g2_GALLERYSID=TMP_SESSION_ID_DI_NOISSES_PMT" border="0"></a> <b style="">The great sages of ancient <st1:country-region w:st="on"><st1:place w:st="on">India</st1:place></st1:country-region> gave man a priceless gift – one that would promote the maintenance and protection of his health. The gift is the <i style="">ayurvedas</i>, the oldest scientific medical system in the world with along record of clinical experience. With its holistic approach of combining the body, mind, and spirit, the <i style="">ayurvedas</i> shows how to cure diseases as well as promote longevity. The desire to maintain fitness, health, and longevity is one of the common aspirations of man.<o:p></o:p></b></p>  <p class="MsoNormal">A healthy person has a balanced digestion and metabolism, such as the function of his tissues and waste materials are normal. In such a healthy state, he achieves a well formed constitution, an attractive appearance, good muscular strength, and complete peace of mind. With good health, he gains recognition in the society, friendship with all people, honor, and wealth, since he has the energy and ability to achieve his goals.</p>  <p class="MsoNormal">Long life is a cherished desire by most people. However for those who are continuously rocked and tangled by the stress and pressures of a high-strung society, long life is vied as a dreadful nightmare. Whether you consider longevity as a curse or blessing, there are physical signs to show you if you are a possible candidate for long life. This information is contained in the <i style="">chakara samhita</i>, which dates back to around 1,500 BC. Some of this signs are repeated but at least you know exactly what tissues are in optimal condition and which ones are not. Check how many of these signs you might have:</p>  <p class="MsoNormal">*The skin of the individual is soft, smooth, firm and fine. The forehead is prominent, in the shape of a half moon. The ears, when viewed from the front, appear small, but appear large when raised up and full of flesh when seen from behind. </p>  <p class="MsoNormal">*The eyes show their white and black parts distinctly. The eyelashes are thick and well set. The nose is straight and moderately prominent, with large nostrils and the end rose up somewhat. The lips are red but not protruding. The jaws are large, as is the mouth. The teeth touch each other and are glossy, smooth, white in color, and equal ion size. The tongue is red, long, and thin. The chin is big and well-formed. The nails are thin, red, and rose up slightly. The hands and feet are rather large, glossy, full of flesh, and red-dish. The fingers are long and, when placed together, do not leave any space between them.</p>  <p class="MsoNormal">*The back of the body is expansive and the spine covered with flesh. The voice is deep and resonant, with a nasal sound to it, and lingers after speaking. The skin is glossy and vibrant. All the bones are appropriately<span style="">&nbsp;&nbsp; </span>proportioned and capable of separate and easy movement. The joints are well-knit and strongly connected by muscle and blood, strong and full of flesh. The flesh and blood are best quality, in the right proportion, and all the limbs are ideally juxtaposed.</p>  <p class="MsoNormal">Such individuals of proportionate musculature and compactness of the body possess very good strength. With these, they can defend themselves from the onslaught of disease. They can stand hunger, thirst, heat, cold and severe physical exercise. They can digest and assimilate large amounts of food properly.</p>  <p class="MsoNormal">The optimal condition of the blood is seen in the quality of the skin – glossy, smooth, soft, attractive, thin, and tender. This glossy and red color is also seen in ears, mouth, tongue, lips, nose, palms, and soles of the feet.</p>  <p class="MsoNormal">When the muscle tissue is in the best condition, the back of the neck, forehead, temples, eyes, chin, shoulders, stomach, breast, and joints of the hands and feet become solid, strong, attractive, the voice deep and pleasing, the hair and nails soft and glossy.</p>  <p class="MsoNormal">When the bone tissue is in the best of health, you have large and well-formed heels, ankles, knees, elbows, collar bones, chin, and forehead. The other bones, nails, and teeth are large, compact, and steady. You know that your nerve tissue is working well when you possess a very soft but strong body, deep voice, glossy skin, and long, rounded joints. When the reproductive tissue is functioning well, you have an attractive personality, a joyful temperament, glossy, strong teeth, hair, nails, full red lips, and a good sexual capacity.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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                <title>Past Links From the Past</title>
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                <pubDate>Thu, 11 Jun 2009 16:39:00 +0000</pubDate>
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                                <description><![CDATA[We often say that, “Don’t cry over spilled milk.” The past is done over and done with. We should turn the book of life if we want to get anywhere. We cannot change the past. Why delve in it when the present already offers much to think about? Is there...]]></description>
                <content:encoded><![CDATA[<a href="http://ronhealththoughts.i.ph/photo/15/106" target="_blank"><img src="http://ronhealththoughts.i.ph/photo/d/107-1/couple1.jpg?g2_GALLERYSID=TMP_SESSION_ID_DI_NOISSES_PMT" border="0"></a> <span style="font-weight: bold;">We often say that, “Don’t cry over spilled milk.” The past is done over and done with. We should turn the book of life if we want to get anywhere. We cannot change the past. Why delve in it when the present already offers much to think about? Is there any value in the past?</span><br>The past may be gone but it has left its imprints in the present. We are what we are today<br>because of the past. Our thoughts, attitudes, our beliefs today are results of the past. In fact, the impression may be so deep that we may be pushing now because someone had hurt us before. Some people put up a hard façade as a form of defense from the pain. Deep resentment patterns influence us today.<br>Why wait to be the life’s knife-edge and panic before we resolve these resentments? Now is the time to dissolve and resolve these resentments. In the state of panic, it will be very difficult to focus the minds on the healing work. So right now, we simply have to take some time off to deal with those hidden fears first.<br>If we believe we are helpless and victims of the past, nature will support us in that belief. We vindicate ourselves and foolishly go down the drain due to such beliefs. This is why we must release ourselves from outmoded, negative ideas, and beliefs that we are not maintaining nor nourishing us. As I’ve told my friends,” Why do you’ve need to strap this heavy load on your back? You don’t need to. You can snip it off and be a happier person.”<br>To release ourselves from the past, it is vital that we forgive not just others, but especially ourselves. Forgiveness may not come that easily. We may not know how nor even want to forgive, but if we are aware that we must and, at least, are willing to forgive, our healing process begins.<br>For us to heal, it is essential to release ourselves from the past and forgive everyone. “I forgive you for not being the way I wanted you to be. I forgive you for your shortcomings and set you free.” To come to the point of even saying that may take a lot from us but this is how we heal ourselves.<br>In the Course of Miracles, it is stated, “All disease comes from a state of unforgiving” and “Whenever we are ill, we need to look around to see whom it is that we need to forgive.” When we are ill, we need to search from within the depths of our hearts to see whom it is we need to forgive. Quite revealing that the very person whom you’re least incline to forgive is the one you need to let go of the most. When we forgive, it doesn’t mean we now condoning or consenting to that person’s behavior or the situation. Forgiveness means letting go. We may not even know how to forgive but to bring to ourselves to want to do so invite nature to step in and take care of the rest.<br>No one understands our own pain as much as we do. It is easier for us to lock ourselves in what we are going through and forget others who are involved in that experience. Often, it is also difficult for us to understand that those we need to forgive the most are also in pain. We need to understand that those people are doing the best they can with the understanding, awareness and knowledge they have at the moment.<br>Just as we accept others and try to understand the way they are, we should the same to ourselves. Again, this not to condoned nor justify any mistakes we’ve made, but this must be an acceptance and love for ourselves. From there, we can work out what needs to be done. The past can be change by changing our attitudes about it. But first we must not reject or punish ourselves. This creates many miracles in our life in terms of an improved health, more fulfilling relationships and even more money. We begin to loosen up and express ourselves in more creative, fulfilling ways. It’s almost like magic: everything seems to happen without our even trying too hard.<br>When we love and approve of ourselves, we create a space of trust and acceptance which in turn creates some organization in or mind. More loving relationships in our life, attraction of a new job and a better place to live in. people who love themselves and their bodies neither abuse neither themselves nor others. Charity begins at home. No charity begins with oneself.<br>Thanks to Marilitz "thoughts".]]></content:encoded>
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                <title>Nature's Warning Signs</title>
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                <pubDate>Tue, 19 May 2009 15:36:00 +0000</pubDate>
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                                <description><![CDATA[No one gets sick overnight. Usually, nature sends her warning signals every time there is a breach of any law. If the person ignores her signals, and continues with his present diets and habits, then nature has no other recourse but deprive the person of his normal functions. For instance...]]></description>
                <content:encoded><![CDATA[<!--[if gte mso 9]><xml>  <w:WordDocument>   <w:View>Normal</w:View>   <w:Zoom>0</w:Zoom>   <w:PunctuationKerning/>   <w:ValidateAgainstSchemas/>   <w:SaveIfXMLInvalid>false</w:SaveIfXMLInvalid>   <w:IgnoreMixedContent>false</w:IgnoreMixedContent>   <w:AlwaysShowPlaceholderText>false</w:AlwaysShowPlaceholderText>   <w:Compatibility>    <w:BreakWrappedTables/>    <w:SnapToGridInCell/>    <w:WrapTextWithPunct/>    <w:UseAsianBreakRules/>    <w:DontGrowAutofit/>   </w:Compatibility>   <w:BrowserLevel>MicrosoftInternetExplorer4</w:BrowserLevel>  </w:WordDocument> </xml><![endif]--><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml>  <w:LatentStyles DefLockedState="false" LatentStyleCount="156">  </w:LatentStyles> </xml><![endif]--> <!--  /* Style Definitions */  p.MsoNormal, li.MsoNormal, div.MsoNormal 	{mso-style-parent:""; 	margin:0in; 	margin-bottom:.0001pt; 	mso-pagination:widow-orphan; 	font-size:12.0pt; 	font-family:"Times New Roman"; 	mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman";} @page Section1 	{size:8.5in 11.0in; 	margin:1.0in 1.25in 1.0in 1.25in; 	mso-header-margin:.5in; 	mso-footer-margin:.5in; 	mso-paper-source:0;} div.Section1 	{page:Section1;} --> <!--[if gte mso 10]> <style>  /* Style Definitions */  table.MsoNormalTable 	{mso-style-name:"Table Normal"; 	mso-tstyle-rowband-size:0; 	mso-tstyle-colband-size:0; 	mso-style-noshow:yes; 	mso-style-parent:""; 	mso-padding-alt:0in 5.4pt 0in 5.4pt; 	mso-para-margin:0in; 	mso-para-margin-bottom:.0001pt; 	mso-pagination:widow-orphan; 	font-size:10.0pt; 	font-family:"Times New Roman"; 	mso-ansi-language:#0400; 	mso-fareast-language:#0400; 	mso-bidi-language:#0400;} </style> <![endif]-->  <p class="MsoNormal"><a href="http://ronhealththoughts.i.ph/photo/15/103" target="_blank" mce_href="http://ronhealththoughts.i.ph/photo/15/103"><img src="http://ronhealththoughts.i.ph/photo/d/104-1/sign3.jpg?g2_GALLERYSID=TMP_SESSION_ID_DI_NOISSES_PMT" alt="" mce_src="http://ronhealththoughts.i.ph/photo/d/104-1/sign3.jpg?g2_GALLERYSID=TMP_SESSION_ID_DI_NOISSES_PMT" border="0"></a> <b>No one gets sick overnight. Usually, nature sends her warning signals every time there is a breach of any law. If the person ignores her signals, and continues with his present diets and habits, then nature has no other recourse but deprive the person of his normal functions.</b></p>  <p class="MsoNormal">For instance due to a person's bad diet, unclean habits, and other distressful activities, less urination occurs. More toxins accumulate in the body. In the <i>Ayurvedic</i> medicine, the fire of the stomach becomes weak, so there is loss of appetite. The ingested food then cannot properly breakdown, resulting in constipation or loose bowel movement. This, in turn , affects the quantity of impure blood produced. when there is improper oxidation of blood, wastes are not eliminated.</p>  <p class="MsoNormal">An accumulation of carbon dioxides and toxins slows down the function of a particular organ, thereby reducing its vitality and increasing its fatigue. These accumulated wastes inhibit the flow and penetration of the internal energy and the recharging needed by that organ. This is how diseases flourish around the particular organ, later becoming reflected on the specific areas of the person's palms and soles.</p>  <p class="MsoNormal">Before looking for or getting some treatment or relief, we must first understand the language of the body. Body signals like belching indicates that the stomach is full. An ache or pain in the certain areas shows congestion of carbon dioxide, water, fire element, air. Runny nose or sneezing means the body is trying to throw out excess water.</p>  <p class="MsoNormal">Cough signals that the body is feeling cold or congestion<span>&nbsp; </span>has to be cleaed up the throat and the chest.</p>  <p class="MsoNormal">Itching shows that a greater flow of blood is required around the affected part. Fever indicates the war inside the body, i.e., the white blood cells, our well trained soldiers, battling with germs or pathogenic bacteria.</p>  <p class="MsoNormal">Loss of appetite reveals that the congestion and constipation, or the body is busy fighting the disease. In such a case, only lukewarm water and fruit juices or buttermilk should be taken instead of further taxing the stomach with food. Pain in the heart or chest pains shows that the heart is longing for total rest. Try to have some bed-rest for 24 to 72 hours.</p>  <p class="MsoNormal">Understanding the language of the body and paying heed of its warning signals is more vital than just taking in medications to suppress the symptoms. In some cases, the sudden stoppage of fever has oftentimes resulted in some worst disease-even in paralysis.</p>  <p class="MsoNormal">To obtain a quick relief from the early warning signs of a sick body and to break the vicious cycle of diseases mentioned, health experts advise age-old methods to recharge our inner battery or to make the subtle internal energy or <i>chi</i> circulate properly. One method is <i>pranayam</i> or deep abdominal breathing, where the abdomen expands upon inhalation and contracts upon exhalation. Drink lukewarm water or an electrolyte drink like Gatorade.</p>  <p class="MsoNormal">Skip a meal or two. Reduce food intake and have more fruits and vegetables juices and buttermilk, thereby allowing the digestive system to rest. Sleep recharges the battery of our body. More valuable than medicine is a good sleep, especially when one feels tired, or when there<span>&nbsp; </span>is pain in more than two or three<span>&nbsp; </span>points in your palms and soles.</p>  <p class="MsoNormal">One of the vital points check is the solar plexus, or the <i>nabhi chakra</i>, which is located below the sternum.</p>  <p class="MsoNormal">According to the <i>Ayurvedas</i>, this is the controlling center for all the organs below the diaphragm. There are ways to also confirm if the solar plexus is in the proper condition. In the morning, on an e,pty stomach, when you lie down on a hard surface on your back, press your navel with your finger or thumb. Throbbing sensations like that of the heart is felt. That means that the system is alright.</p>  <p class="MsoNormal">Another way of checking the condition of the solar plexus is measuring the distance between the right nipple and the navel and the left nipple and the navel. If the distance is equal, then you have no problem, but if the center has shifted upwards or downwards, then you've got a problem. Also, you can lie on your back, keeping yours arms straight on your sides. Keep the legs straight and the toes upright.</p>  <p class="MsoNormal">The two big toes must be level. If they are not, it indicates a disturbance in the solar plexus.</p>  <p class="MsoNormal">The center shifts<span>&nbsp; </span>upward or downward when excess weight is lifted, or when there is severe gas trouble. In such cases, the throbbing will not be noticed somewhere around the navel. The upward shifting of the solar plexus leads to constipation, and the downward shifting brings more motions every<span>&nbsp; </span>time there is a pressure. If a person has cancer of the colon, there is chronic constipation and it has been found out that the solar plexus has moved upwards. It is advisable to check the position of the solar plexus before starting a treatment. The solar plexus is like the mains springs of a watch. Unless it is set right, treatment may not give the desired result.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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                <title>Slimming Naturally 3</title>
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                <pubDate>Tue, 05 May 2009 10:31:00 +0000</pubDate>
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                                <description><![CDATA[&nbsp;&nbsp; The Exercise Factor &nbsp; Medical science strongly supports the importance of regular exercise. A group of middle-aged men and women followed a fitness program. They showed lower level of blood sugar, fats , cholesterol, and gains in flexibility, strength, and stamina. Longer programs reaped greater benefits such as reduced...]]></description>
                <content:encoded><![CDATA[<meta http-equiv="Content-Type" content="text/html; charset=utf-8"><meta name="ProgId" content="Word.Document"><meta name="Generator" content="Microsoft Word 11"><meta name="Originator" content="Microsoft Word 11"><link rel="File-List" href="file:///C:%5CDOCUME%7E1%5CRoderick%5CLOCALS%7E1%5CTemp%5Cmsohtml1%5C01%5Cclip_filelist.xml"><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml>  <w:WordDocument>   <w:View>Normal</w:View>   <w:Zoom>0</w:Zoom>   <w:PunctuationKerning/>   <w:ValidateAgainstSchemas/>   <w:SaveIfXMLInvalid>false</w:SaveIfXMLInvalid>   <w:IgnoreMixedContent>false</w:IgnoreMixedContent>   <w:AlwaysShowPlaceholderText>false</w:AlwaysShowPlaceholderText>   <w:Compatibility>    <w:BreakWrappedTables/>    <w:SnapToGridInCell/>    <w:WrapTextWithPunct/>    <w:UseAsianBreakRules/>    <w:DontGrowAutofit/>   </w:Compatibility>   <w:BrowserLevel>MicrosoftInternetExplorer4</w:BrowserLevel>  </w:WordDocument> </xml><![endif]--><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml>  <w:LatentStyles DefLockedState="false" LatentStyleCount="156">  </w:LatentStyles> </xml><![endif]--><style> <!--  /* Style Definitions */  p.MsoNormal, li.MsoNormal, div.MsoNormal 	{mso-style-parent:""; 	margin:0in; 	margin-bottom:.0001pt; 	mso-pagination:widow-orphan; 	font-size:12.0pt; 	font-family:"Times New Roman"; 	mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman";} @page Section1 	{size:8.5in 11.0in; 	margin:1.0in 1.25in 1.0in 1.25in; 	mso-header-margin:.5in; 	mso-footer-margin:.5in; 	mso-paper-source:0;} div.Section1 	{page:Section1;} --> </style><!--[if gte mso 10]> <style>  /* Style Definitions */  table.MsoNormalTable 	{mso-style-name:"Table Normal"; 	mso-tstyle-rowband-size:0; 	mso-tstyle-colband-size:0; 	mso-style-noshow:yes; 	mso-style-parent:""; 	mso-padding-alt:0in 5.4pt 0in 5.4pt; 	mso-para-margin:0in; 	mso-para-margin-bottom:.0001pt; 	mso-pagination:widow-orphan; 	font-size:10.0pt; 	font-family:"Times New Roman"; 	mso-ansi-language:#0400; 	mso-fareast-language:#0400; 	mso-bidi-language:#0400;} </style> <![endif]-->  <p class="MsoNormal"><a href="http://ronhealththoughts.i.ph/photo/15/100" target="_blank"><img src="http://ronhealththoughts.i.ph/photo/d/101-1/yoga.jpg?g2_GALLERYSID=TMP_SESSION_ID_DI_NOISSES_PMT" border="0"></a> <br></p><p class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;</p><p class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;</p><p class="MsoNormal"> <b style=""><span style="font-size: 14pt;">The Exercise Factor<o:p></o:p></span></b></p>  <p class="MsoNormal"><b style=""><span style="font-size: 14pt;"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></span></b></p>  <p class="MsoNormal"><b style="">Medical science strongly supports the importance of regular exercise. A group of middle-aged men and women followed a fitness program. They showed lower level of blood sugar, fats , cholesterol, and gains in flexibility, strength, and stamina. Longer programs reaped greater benefits such as reduced tensions, improved respiratory capacity, lowered body fat, and increase in one’s sense of well-being.<o:p></o:p></b></p>  <p class="MsoNormal"><b style=""><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></b></p>  <p class="MsoNormal">With regular exercise, the metabolic rate increase, the digestive and circulatory system improve, the heart muscles grow stronger, and the skin acquires glow.</p>  <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></p>  <p class="MsoNormal">Regular exercise could mean a 5-mile brisk walk a day, swimming, <i style="">taichi, </i>biking, or <i style="">yoga asanas. </i>But if you have a heart or uterus problem, jogging is not advisable.</p>  <p class="MsoNormal">General yoga practice helps combat obesity by toning muscles and enhancing body awareness and willpower, facilitating a more sensible eating pattern. Abdominal contractions prevent and reduce fat bellies and lessen the risk of incurring back disorders.</p>  <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></p>  <p class="MsoNormal"><b style="">Alternative Ways<o:p></o:p></b></p>  <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></p>  <p class="MsoNormal">The Ayurvedas has many recommendations for losing weight. Using lemon juice is a very effective means. This is like going to a juice fasting, which also cleanses your body of all toxins.</p>  <p class="MsoNormal">On the first day, juice or three pieces of lemon mixed with an equal amount of water should be given. One lemon per day should be added until the juice of 12 lemons is consumed per day. The number should be decreased in the same order until three lemons are taken a day You will feel hungry and weak on the first two days, but after that, your condition will stabilize.</p>  <p class="MsoNormal">Another formula is using bananas and skimmed milk. The daily diet is restricted to six bananas and four glasses of skimmed milk for a period of 10 to 15 days. Then green vegetables may be gradually added, reducing the intake of bananas from six to four. Continue this diet until you achieve the desire weight level. Bananas are ideal for overweight people as it has practically non sodium.</p>  <p class="MsoNormal">Base on some recent researches, cabbage has a valuable ingredient called<i style=""> tartonic</i> acid which inhibits the conversion of sugar and carbohydrates into fat. Taking cabbage salad would be one of the simplest and painless ways of staying slim. A hundred grams of cabbage yields only 27 kilocalories of energy, while the same quantity of wheat bread will yield about 240 calories, so you get fewer calories while having a lasting feeling of fullness in the stomach. It is also easily digestible.</p>  <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></p>  <p class="MsoNormal">Losing the first few pounds is easy as this is only water, but shedding the next ones will be a bit hard. Don’t get discourage by this. A steady weight loss is better than an abrupt one because it stays, provided that you also maintain this with proper food intake. </p><p class="MsoNormal">Have a better healthful feeling and “thoughts”<span style="">&nbsp; </span></p>]]></content:encoded>
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                <title>Slimming Naturally 2</title>
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                <pubDate>Fri, 01 May 2009 14:08:00 +0000</pubDate>
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                                <description><![CDATA[Mealtime SuggestionUpon rising, drink a glass of purer fruit juice, herb tea, or apple cider vinegar which is about a teaspoon mixed with honey and hot water. This apple cider vinegar with water concoction is an effective slimming formula for me as it has been for many centuries. Apple cider...]]></description>
                <content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="descriptionwrapper"> <p class="description"><span> </span></p> </div>   <div id="crosscol-wrapper" style="text-align: center;">  </div> <div id="main-wrapper"> <div class="main section" id="main"><div class="widget Blog" id="Blog1"> <div class="blog-posts hfeed"> <br> <div class="post hentry uncustomized-post-template"><div class="post-body entry-content"> <a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_9BAqjbcY1Dg/SfqOh4ngqDI/AAAAAAAAAEA/onyIidPBV9I/s1600-h/fruit+logo.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 200px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_9BAqjbcY1Dg/SfqOh4ngqDI/AAAAAAAAAEA/onyIidPBV9I/s200/fruit+logo.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5330729821731334194" border="0"></a><br><span style="font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-size: 130%;">Mealtime Suggestion</span><br>U<span style="font-size: 100%;">pon rising, drink a glass of purer <a class="zem_slink" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Juice" title="Juice" rel="wikipedia">fruit juice</a>, herb tea, or apple cider vinegar which is about a teaspoon mixed with honey and hot water. This apple cider vinegar with water concoction is an effective slimming formula for me as it has been for many centuries. Apple cider melts fatty deposits in your bloodstream so it enhances the circulation of blood.<br><br></span></span>For breakfast, you can have some muesli with yogurt and <span style="font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-size: 100%;"><span style="font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-weight: bold;"></span><span style="font-style: italic;">tahini </span></span></span></span></span><span style="font-size: 100%;"><span style="font-style: italic;"></span>or<span style="font-style: italic;"></span><span style="font-style: italic;"></span></span><span style="font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-size: 100%;"><span style="font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-style: italic;"> </span></span></span></span></span><span style="font-size: 100%;">whole grain cereal with skimmed or soy milk. Some alternatives would be fresh fruit with wheat germs and yogurt, or toasted bread with sunflower margarine and honey or savory spread. Drink herb tea, cereal coffee substitute, or pure fruit juice.<br><br><br>For lunch, we have some vegetarian savory made with cheese, nuts or grains or legumes, with a selection of <a class="zem_slink" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vegetable" title="Vegetable" rel="wikipedia">vegetables</a> in season. Or have a mixed vegetable salad with baked unpeeled potato or baked onions. For dessert, try a soaked dried fruit, baked apple, fresh fruit, granola, yogurt, natural fruit jelly, or a tofu dessert, which is tofu is eaten with dried fruit, fresh fruit , or honey.<br><br>For supper, eat the kind of food you had for lunch but do so before 6p.m. Or, you could have something light, like a vegetable soap or fruit. You can also try a mixed salad and yogurt with some vegetarian savory and tofu.<br>Herbal tea are vital whether you are on a diet or not because they have a string of health benefits. These tea concoctions help reduce body weight. You can try chamomile tea and lemon. This done by boiling a cup of water to a slice of lemon and one teaspoon of chamomile. Cover and leaved overnight. Drink it first thing in the morning. Or, you drink a glass of unsweetened grape juice before breakfast and another in the afternoon. Another concoction is prepared using onions. Chopped onion is added to a glass of boiling water. Then add a few drops of lemon juice. Drink this first thing in the morning.<br>Aloe vera is a wonderful tonic that requires sugar and fat metabolism. You can drink two teaspoon of aloe vera mixed with apple juice. If you do not like the taste of aloe vera, you can take this in capsule from which is available at healthfood store.<span style="font-size: 130%;"><span style="font-weight: bold;"></span><span style="font-weight: bold;"><br></span></span></span><span style="font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-size: 100%;"><span style="font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-style: italic;"> </span></span><br></span></span></span></div></div></div></div></div></div>]]></content:encoded>
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                <title>A Healthy Relationship</title>
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                <pubDate>Thu, 16 Apr 2009 15:46:00 +0000</pubDate>
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                                <description><![CDATA[Other than parenting a child, relating intimately with another person is the hardest emotional task one has to face. The difficult aspect of a relationship is that it demands the examination of the places within yourself that are wounded. This is important because you are likely to project this to...]]></description>
                <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://ronhealththoughts.i.ph/photo/15/94" target="_blank"><img src="http://ronhealththoughts.i.ph/photo/d/95-1/Couple+kissing.jpg?g2_GALLERYSID=TMP_SESSION_ID_DI_NOISSES_PMT" border="0"></a> Other than parenting a child, relating intimately with another person is the hardest emotional task one has to face. The difficult aspect of a relationship is that it demands the examination of the places within yourself that are wounded. This is important because you are likely to project this to your current partner.<br> To be intimate means to share pains and accept the risk of being hurt. To be intimate means to be vulnerable yet to be able to cope. You must be able to take the bumps and falls that the come with opening yourself to trust. These slips do not refer to physical or psychological abuse, but two people trying to fill each others needs and being hurt in the process.</p> <p><a class="zem_slink" title="Intimate relationship" rel="wikipedia" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Intimate_relationship">Intimate relationship</a> lead to the fear of abandonment, but not all. Such fear triggers various reactions, from withdrawal to rage . When rage persist, it is wise to leave the relationship rather than suffer the brunt of insecurities day in or day out.<br> A wife fearful that her husband would leave her, made him suffer through constant nagging and sometimes, fasting for days. She usually earned her husband’s attention after such a fast. For the sake of the children whom he loves dearly, he put up with it.But now, he is simply fed up and wants a way out of such tortures. All he is asking for is that his wife be not so selfish. It is said that the tighter your grip on the sand in your palm, the lesser you can contain, if you don’t lose it all.</p> <p>The problem is that each one is demanding to be loved and protected. Discussions can turn into battles about whose needs are being met. Each one is like a child who look to the person across the room to fill his or her needs, but there is no adult on either side to reply. Both have simply collapsed into their childhood fears.</p> <p>When these situations arise, you can try to work it out in two ways. One is to respond to and confront the immediate cause. Another is to give your partner an idea of the source - sometimes deeply buried—of your reaction. To do this, though, you must first understand your own patterns&nbsp; of fear.</p> <p>Here’s an exercise you can do to examine your core issues and develop the tools necessary to create a more healthy relationship.<br> Never use these issues against each other. Information shared for each other must be accepted with the understanding and trust that each is a friend who wants to help the other. This exercise calls for self-introspection.<br> Make a list of your most intimate relationship, not necessarily sexual. Are you still involved with them? If not, how did the relation end? How did you feel about its ending? Are these patterns of similarities of the ending of your relationship? If so, how do these patterns fit-into your experience of childhood?<br> If your are currently in a committed relationship, what are the issues that the two of you disagree about most? What are their themes? What is position on these issues and what is your partner’s position?<br> Now close your eyes and see which part within you responds to the situation. Who gets hurt or angry or afraid? Make commitments to yourself on how you would protect yourself from similar situations. Now write down your understanding of your partner’s issue. Ask him how he reacts to this issue. Is your partner interested in hearing your perceptions?<br> Remember, these are your perceptions, not your judgments! You can try to share what you have learned about yourself as well.<br> Thanks to Marilitz “thoughts”.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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                <title>Slimming Naturally</title>
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                                <description><![CDATA[Tons of people worry on how to unload those excess baggage, getting rid of flab - slimming. Going by today's standards, to be slim is to be attractive. to look lean and mean with firm muscles is the anxiety which results in making aerobic and other fitness centers thrive as...]]></description>
                <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>         <p><a href="http://ronhealththoughts.i.ph/photo/15/91" target="_blank"><img src="http://ronhealththoughts.i.ph/photo/d/92-1/veggies1.jpg?g2_GALLERYSID=TMP_SESSION_ID_DI_NOISSES_PMT" border="0"></a> Tons of people worry on how to unload those excess baggage, getting rid of flab - slimming.<br> Going by today's standards, to be slim is to be attractive. to look lean and mean with firm muscles is the anxiety which results in making aerobic and other fitness centers thrive as a booming business. Fitness programs with treatments compete for your hard-earned money, all promising to make you shed 20 to 30 unwanted pounds. Fat burners and slimming teas abound in the shelves of health food stores. Those without patience with the programs get an instant liposuction, surgical shortening of the small intestines or sewing of the stomach so to be smaller.</p><p>Weight loss actually is not a big problem with which to be burdened. To lose that excess weight is desirable, not just for superficial reason&nbsp; of so-called beauty standards. Actually, it is quite sad that people see others on the basis of the person within that body.<br> But be sure to lose that excess weight because having more fat in the body slows one down , invite diseases, and cause fatigue. Please consider that the first reason why one may be over-eating, though. Is it due to some emotional problem, or some glandular disorders? From there you can adopt a program for a more healthy living<br> </p><p>Attention to diet is crucial. Your body is the result of your current eating habits. If your body is sickly or heavy on the scale, introduce changes gradually. Changing to a new good diet should not mean making abrupt stressful adjustment. You must be aware of the desirable and undesirable food identity.<br> </p>Stay away from sweets, salty, fatty processed foods. You don't have to live on a monotonous unpolished rice and veggies either. Fad diet are not the answer either to obesity or bad health. It deprive the body of essential nutrients and lower the body's metabolic rate. What is needed is establishing a good ratio of nutrients by choosing good quality foods.</p><p>You must be aware of your individual requirements. Many of my friends who work with computers like to nibble while working. What do they nibble? Some salty, sweet processed junk food. It must be hard for them to go a weight control diet program. But still, you must find a healthy substitute to eat like dried fruits and fruit juices.</p><p>Work within a sensible framework, and occasional treats can be enjoyed without harm. Eat food as close to their natural state as possble. Add more raw food at the start of the meal, or follow the main meal suggestion twice a week, then three times until you are close to the recomended pattern.</p><p>Having fiber in one's food is essential to anyone even if he/she is not in some trimming down program. Fiber comes from whole plants, wholen grains, vegetables, and fruits. it is bsically composed of the edible plant which forms the plant cell walls. Fiber is neither digested or absorbed in the small intestine; it is digested in the large intestine. Some of the digested products actually get into the body and significantly reduce the production of cholesterol.</p><p>Fiber is mainly a source of complex carbohydrates which releases gradual energy level into our blood sugar. Complex carbohydrates also does'nt shoot up our blood sugar leaving our body suddenly depleted with energy, a reaction given of by simple carbohydrates.</p><p>According to medical findings, fiber may protect you against cancer, may reduce the risk of coronay heart disease and help control obesity and diabetes. Fiber is essential in fostering healthy bowel movement and protects us against gall-stones, reduces cholesterol levels and ensures better health.</p><p>Avoid white bread, white sugar, dyed or artificially sweetened foods and drinks. Avoid meat, if possible, specially red meat. Eat plenty of fruits, vegetables, and whole grains like oats, brown rice and wheat. Take multi-vitamins and minerals three times a day. Minimize or avoid intake of artificial salt. Pay attention to trace minerals such as zinc and sulphur which are good for the skin.</p><p>Perhaps you have heard that when you are on a diet, one of the basic rules is NOT to starve yourself. Rather, you must eat the proper food that can lessen your weight but still provide energy for your body.<br></p><p>&nbsp; <br></p><br> &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;]]></content:encoded>
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